Friday, May 28, 2010

Week 1 Deployment Accomplishments!!

Well I survived week one of deployment. Hubby says that counting the days makes it harder for him, but I feel like week one was an important thing to get through. So rather than focus on how much it sucked, I thought I'd put out some of my accomlishments.

  • Killing a big buggy in the tub
  • Walking the dogs every day by myself
  • Taking out all the trash by myself
  • Going to the gym almost every day!
  • Trying a new mexican food recipe
  • Eating at a hole in the wall resturaunt and loving it
  • Grocery shopping alone (and saving a bunch of money)
  • Cutting up a cantelope without slicing off a finger
  • Buying the perfect anniversary card, and sending this picture in it :]
It's not so bad. It'll all be over by Christmas...hopefully.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Thursday Five :]


Once again, thank you to the Mannland5 :]


This week, here are 5 things that put a pep in my step!

1. Emails!!!
2. The gym, and friends that will act as my personal trainers
3. Kix- the only thing the teething little girl I watch wants to eat right now!!
4. Empty gatorade bottles full of change, that stops dogs from barking uncontrolably. (Try it, it really works)
5. Hair dye, for making me feel like I can still get dolled up and look good, even if hubby isn't here to appreciated it.


What's yours?

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Getting it together

Well I'm still less than a week into this deployment, and while I wouldn't say it's kicking my ass in any way, I'm not sure I'm kicking its', either. Of course sending my husband away for a very lengthy time (could be longer, but that doesn't make 7 months insignificant) comes with a feeling that no one could have ever described. I held strong the first day, and even most of the second. About halfway through, little stuff started happening. It's so silly. But our neighbors have been on vacation for weeks, and they finally came home. Our little puppy Bailey finally got brave enough to go all the way up the stairs to our apartment. The people with an adjacent balcony to ours finally cleaned all the ucky trash out of their balcony. It's little stuff that I would turn around and tell Mike, or add it to my mental list to tell him when he got home from work. Sure, I could email him, but I dont' feel right emailing him ten million insignificant things a day that make me miss him. How would that help?

So so far this week I've been working on getting things together. Doing the last of his leftover laundry, cleaning the house, I even rearranged the bedroom. I've started going to the gym and I'm working on my final projects for school. I'm keeping busy but it still seems like I can't get it together. I feel like I don't have much control over anything.

So since there are so many milspouses out there, I'm asking- when your loved one deployed, what did you do to get it together?

Friday, May 21, 2010

Thursday Five [[On Friday, but I've been busy!]]

Well a few friends have been doing this wonderful thing called "Thursday Five" from the Mannland 5. I think that right now, since I am officially a woman with a deployed husband, would be a wonderful time to start looking at five things every week that make me happy, estatic and joyful. So here we go :]


  1. Hubbers' ship "broke" and deployment was delayed a few days!
  2. Bailey finally got brave enough to take the stairs up to our apartment!
  3. Willow braved the waves at the dog beach!
  4. I finally got a new set of sheets for the bedroom and am in looove.
  5. Frank found me a pretty black sea-shell at the beach.
So I have one more little thing to talk about. I'll probably write a few more blogs on today later on, when I'm more functional. But today I said my "see you laters" to my hubby, because he's got a lot of responsibility and won't be able to come see me the day the ship pulls out. My amazing friend Emily took me to base to see him, and she snapped some pictures. Here's what I like to call our official "See you later 2010" photo. Thanks to all of you already offering support and letting me know I'm not alone. Every single well-wish makes a difference.
Love you, baby. See you later.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

New Page :]

So I am still fairly new to the serious blogging world, ha, but I'm trying something new. I've added a new page to the blog. It's called Cooking for One and it's going to be a collection of my own and others' adapted recipes for my fellow spouses of military men or anyone that wants to take advantage of a yummy meal solo style. I haven't quite figured out how to get that to come up on the dashboard, so maybe I will post on the home page every time I put up a new recipe. Anyways, keep checking the page in case I forget to update on here. There are two up now to check out so I hope ya'll enjoy!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

The Mrs.Voigt Alphabet :]

So I've seen a few of these in the last few weeks. I got this one from One Lucky Monkey, but I'm not sure where she got it. Just thought it'd be a fun little blog to do before I go off to sleepy land. :]

I saw this cute A to Z of Me on a few blogs and decided to do it for myself tonight. I love filling out these things - in particular when I'm trying to procrastinate:-)





A to Z of Me

 
A. AREA CODE : Raised in 512, currently residing in the 619


B. BED SIZE: Queen, but I wouldn't mind an upgrade!

C. CHORE YOU HATE: Doing the dishes and cleaning dog booboo from our untrainable puppy :(

 
D. DOG'S NAME: Willow Marie, red/dapple dachshund, and Bailey Rae, fawn puggle.

 
E. ESSENTIAL "START THE DAY!" ITEM: Uhg, I swore I'd never be this way, but sadly, coffee.

 
F. FAVORITE COLOR: Hmm generally I'd say purple, but here lately I'm loooving teal.


G. GOLD OR SILVER: Silver or WHITE gold


H. HEIGHT: 5' 5"


I. INSTRUMENTS YOU PLAY: My vocal cords and the radio dail


J. Job: Babysitter and Housewifey

 
K. KIDS: None yet. Someday. Although I'm occassionally guilty of baby-fever.


L. LIVING ARRANGEMENTS: Apartment with my hubby dubby


N. NICKNAME: Just Mikey. Or Mikey-May


M.MOM'S NAME: Shellie

 
O. OVERNIGHT HOSPITAL STAY: Every year of high school due to Reactive Airway Disease

 
P. PET PEEVE: Starting to say something and not finishing it, and "This branch of military is better than this one" debates.


Q. QUOTE FROM A MOVIE: Really? There's a Stalker Book? Man, I gotta read that one." [Eternal Sunshine]


R. RIGHTY OR LEFTY?: Lefty :]



S. SIBLINGS: Brother-Charles. And two of the most amazing sisters in law a girl could ask for.



T. TIME YOU WAKE UP: On weekdays, 7a.m.



U. UNDERWEAR: Boyshorts all the way.



V. VEGGIE YOU DISLIKE: Most of them, but green beans and peas make me gag.


W. WAYS/REASONS YOU ARE LATE: Getting lost. Lol.


 
X. XRAYS YOU'VE HAD: Teefs, tailbone, chest, wrist and back.



Y. YUMMY FOOD YOU MAKE: Hmm. My favorite is probably chicken cordon bleu. Probably.

 

Z. ZOO ANIMALS YOU LIKE: Giraffes and elephantes!



Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Skinnie Piggie's Military Wedding Week Contest!!

So I follow a wonderful blog called Hellcat Betty, and today her post turned me onto Skinnie Piggie. I spent a few hours checking out the blog and then I decided to enter the Military Wedding Week Contest! These contests are just really fun to participate in and it's a great way to find new blogs. You should definitely go check some of these entries out!!



So here it goes! Our wedding story may not be much of a story, it was simple and cozy, but so perfect for us that I still think it's worth sharing!

Hubbers proposed via text message. Me being in Texas and him being in California, and him being impatient, he couldn't wait to get leave, so this actually completely fit our relationship. He put a lot of thought into it still, and even though we knew an engagement was coming, he was pretty nervous as we spoke on the phone.
This is the picture I got while he was on the phone, asking me to marry him.

[I know that this isn't a proposal contest but I feel like that's the best way to start a wedding story!]


So Hubbers proposed February 11th, and four days later the date was set for June 5, 2009. I knew exactly where I wanted to get married- the state park in our home town, on top of a cliff overlooking the forest.
The building we held the reception at.


Originally, I chose navy blue and lavender as our colors, and wanted a light springy look. I was going to wear a knee length gown and he would wear a lavender shirt and black slacks. However, (I will spare the details of the drama, but long story short we discovered his side of the family was MUCH more religious than we knew), I ended up wanting to be respectful and not show all the "horrific" tattoos on my legs, so a full length gown was a must and he refused to wear lavender. So the idea kind of changed when I fell in love with this dress.
Not such a pretty face, I know, but this was right when it hit me that I was about to become a married woman, and there was no AC in the building...in Texas...in the afternoon.


We invited about a hundred people, and I'd say about 60 showed up, if that many. I'm horrible at estimating. It was just what we wanted, though. He had two groomsmen, and I had two maids of honor. They picked simple dresses that didn't match but I thought it was just perfect.

I didn't want the wedding march, it just wasn't us. So I walked down the aisle to a song called "So Much" by The Spill Canvas. It was beautiful and perfect. The music started, I took my Daddy's arm, and saw this lovely sight at the end of the petal-covered, stone walkway.
He looks so handsome. There are rumors that he teared up here, but he refutes them.

I was too anxious to wait for the pastor to speak, I kept jumping ahead and repeating the vows before he finished telling me what to say. There were lots of laughs.

The most amazing part of this whole ceremony was when my daddy walked me to the end of the aisle, and the pastor asked if Hubbers would take me (with all the yadda yadda that goes with).

Hubbers smiled, didn't take his eyes away from mine, and in a loud, happy voice, said the words "Without a doubt". Those words never meant so much.

So finally, we kissed.

And for exactly 15 seconds of "our song", I forced him to dance with me.


(He changed out of his heavy Blues for the reception)

He cracked open a Monster Energy drink, we had some of his Mimi's delicious cake, opened presents, said hello to everyone, and then, simple as that, we went on into our happily ever after.

So that's pretty much it. It was a small afair, all decorated by hand, all planned by yours truly, and all made absolutely perfect by Hubbers. Small and simple, and I wouldn't change it for the world.











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